Letter to my Children: Changing a Spoken - INTERRUPTING - Habit

Letter to my Children: Changing a Spoken - INTERRUPTING - Habit

Dearest Beloveds,

Recently I had this conversation with E. “I am trying to stop myself from interrupting. I think it is a terrible habit.”

“Well, I don’t think it’s terrible. My mother interrupts to change the subject. You interrupt because you anticipate the next thing I am going to tell you in the story - and share.”

“Oh E, you are too kind. Another way of saying that is that I am too impatient with you to finish your own story. I predict what you are going to say to show off that I know where you are going. Blerg.”

“Well, I guess that is one way to look at it.”

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Homesteading Middles: Splitting Wood with The Emerald Podcast

Homesteading Middles: Splitting Wood with The Emerald Podcast

In her book, Wait It Gets Worse, my sister wrote about the two of us splitting wood in 2013. We had borrowed a splitter from a friend and took turns maneuvering logs beneath the pressurized blade. We now own a splitting machine. Funny how these things work after you do the math of renting for a few years.

Wanting a clean slate of the most time consuming fall chore before school started - we split wood while the smalls were away. In years past we had waited for October - but getting it done now feels like a gift of kite flying in that month instead of chore twitching.

First thing in the morning before it gets too hot and then again at the end of the day before the mosquitoes take over.

It is so satisfying.

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